Tuesday, February 15, 2011

Pics And Links And Recommended by Travel + Leisure, Oh My!

Equation for a fantastic weekend


Start here ...
Sit at the bar order the chowder and the oysters.


Recover, maybe enjoy a museum or two, and then get ready for
where you WILL overeat
and may not be able to get through the "Pork Bomb"


The next morning, when you're still not hungry, head to


and order one of these for yourself.
Do.  Not.  Share.  This.  No matter WHAT the server recommends.

The next day, exchange the same Valetine's Day card with each other.
Giggle at the perfectness of that.


Be wonderfully surprised by how thoughtful The Awesome Boyfriend is
and be overwhelmed by his generousity. 

Saturday, February 12, 2011

Happy Valentine's Weekend

An open letter to the love of my life:

You give so much.  You are so patient.  Thoughtful.  Caring.  Creative.  You provide arms to hold me, ears to listen to me, and laughter to make me smile.  You are considerate of my opinions and give me new things to think about.  You have opened entire worlds for me.   You encourage me when I am low, and you keep me grounded when I lose my focus.  You excite me, calm me, appreciate what I am and look forward to what you know I can be.  You believe in me when I doubt myself.  You don't let me give up and hold me to my own standards.  Your compassion is overwhelming, your support is rock-solid, and your smile warms my soul.

How could I ever find a way to express to you what all of that means to me?  What grand gesture would work?  What could I possibly do or give or say?

And so, tonight, I will have you read this while we are finishing our meal.  Because, while I could not ever thank you enough for all that you are or all you have done, I can show to you that I understand your vision for our future.  That I embrace it.  Welcome it.  Believe it.  Cherish it.

Yes, it's a silly, small gesture on my part.  I hope you see it for the deeper meaning.  That I want walls filled with our experiences and that all the rest of my days ...and my heart ... they are yours.

Thursday, February 10, 2011

The Lorax

I don't remember ever reading Dr. Seuss books, 'tho I am sure that I did.  I remember listening to them via a record that I had ... Horton, Star-Bellied Sneetches, Yertle, etc.  All classics, all with lessons to be learned, and not always just for kids.

Today, as I sit in my living room and watch out my window, I find myself remembering a story that Dr. Seuss wrote that I wasn't fond of as a child.  It didn't end well, as I remember, and had too many make-believe words for my taste.  It was darker than most of his stuff and, while I'm sure it was not his intent, it made me feel small and helpless.  It was the tale of the Lorax, who spoke for the trees.

You see, there is a tree in my neighbors yard.  It is large and tall and provides the birds and squirrlels with places to play and rest.  It provides shade on warmer days, isn't all that messy with leaves in the fall, and is  a nice harbinger of spring when the buds start to appear on the otherwise very bare branches.

Because this tree is very large and very tall, it has grown around various communication wires and power lines ... not in a dangerous way, but concerning enough that the Awesome Boyfriend and I watch, in Winter as snow and ice weigh things down, to see if we should break out flashlights.  Honestly, 'tho, except for those times, I haven't given this tree much notice.

And now the tree will be removed.  Today, in fact.  Probably within a few hours.  It is healthy and growing and isn't actively harming anything except "progress".  In time, the street we live on will be widened.  So telephone poles need to be relocated.  In doing so, the power company has decided this tree must go.

I'm not one for chaining myself to trees or shackling myself to fences around parks, etc.  I want to believe that the decision to remove this tree hasn't been done lightly.  I'm nearly sure that's the case.  Nearly.  And, honestly, it isn't MY tree to decide on anyway.  But still ...

The town where I was raised gets quite a bit of flack for being overly touchy-feely about being "green", recycling, being vegan, being PC, and being rather mamby-pamby about a LOT of things.  But I know that a tree of this size would receive about 15 minutes of discussion in a town council meeting where the pros and cons would be tossed about before any decisions were made on taking it down.  Maybe that's the case here, too.  Maybe this was decided long before I arrived.

I hope the Lorax was given his time.